Men are surprisingly clueless when their relationship with their long time girlfriend comes to a sudden end. Most of the time woman will tell you it has nothing to do with you, and she will refrain from explaining to you what it was that you did. Here are some helpful ways you must use if you want to get back with your ex girlfriend.
Steps to Get You on the Right Track!
• Recruit a mutual friend to talk to her. Have them find out why she decided to terminate the relationship, and somehow casually ask if there is any way you can get back with your ex girlfriend. A woman stands a much higher chance of obtaining the most information for you, opposed to a man. Whatever you choose, just make sure they are trustworthy and can casually maintain the conversation with her without letting on that it is being done by your request.
• Casually bump into her. Do you know that she goes to a certain local bar every Wednesday with a couple of her girlfriends? Get together a couple of your friends (ideally two men, and one woman), and preferably ones that she knows and is familiar with. The closer friendship they have with her the better. Do not sit with her or express interest in even hanging out with her. This will make her feel trapped and rather angry that you imposed on a night out with her friends. Instead maintain your distance and attempt only a casual hello, preferably when she goes to the bar alone to order a drink or is making her way back from the restroom.
The purpose of this is to show her that you can still go out with your friends and act just as you would if you two were there together. Dress nice, as it doesn’t hurt for her to see you approached by other women. Do not however outright or obviously flirt with them. This will absolutely ruin any chance you had to get back with your ex girlfriend.
• Send her a small yet meaningful gift. Nothing more is needed than a simple red rose to make her and her girlfriends go, “awwwwww…”. This can be done whether you are saying you’re sorry for something you said or did, or just to let your ex know that you are thinking about her. These small gifts work wonders for trying to get back with your ex girlfriend. Just remember to not overdo it and keep it simple.
• If you did something to upset her, swallow your pride and just apologize. There is nothing more harmful for your chances to get back with your ex girlfriend than lying to her. Woman can sense a lie from a mile away so just don’t risk it.
• One last way to get back with your ex girlfriend is to simply, give her some time; especially if she asks for it. Do not try to tread where you are not wanted. She may be going through something completely irrelevant you and truly does just need some time alone.